If you hold such manner to live, obviously, is getting more and more mature besides the body, you have achieved nothing.　　

1st, frivolous

　　Meets has the male public relations on the scene to send rightly, inside you pile first from woman to arrive at his front to exchange the name card, shows your charm infinite, when the waist which, you have not possibly cared about oneself take a walk too swings, when conversation to play the role of the sex appeal, but the too sweet greasy sound, will be jealous you the female colleagues by the baseless rumor form in this matter bamboo telegraph company's leadership ear, will cause you to be possible to trust the index to drop rapidly.

　　You were very already clear the blooming noticeable truth, after all, the Cinderella is nobody pays attention to, turning head rate and pursues the luminosity maintenance, is advantageous in strengthening your self-confidence. But, reveals the navel installs and so on play thing, should better leave the younger female cousin, puts on the sun-top goes out when should better add a shawl again. The mature woman is in appearance at least graceful. Right, the sisters issued your cell phone text messages to leave retransmit again for the opposite sex, these might encourage each other words were suitable not necessarily for all people. Remembers, has the depth charm from you by, but the outside makings reveal, but is not the temporary talent and skill demonstration.

　　2nd, vains

　　You are not 20 years old, celebrates a birthday also suspends any ostentation, if does not have the boyfriend to give the flower, you do not want to telephone to the flower shop to request secretly to deliver on the flower the company and to request three above female colleagues to present. Already was the family life couple, the valentine day necessity high standard strict request has not made excessive demands the male partner.

　　The most new style's handset is not designs specially for you, shows off has -odd, some functions you do not use actually, specially seems light, but the price actually expensive that several sections, you are away from the display window appreciation also, after all, his money is must use for to support the family. May understand that the women like the attractive semblance, but these speak on another's behalf put on make-up the brand stars to use are the free complimentary gifts high-level, even used also to be able to make money, you and they simply not on identical starting line. Therefore, do not demand yourself, everything does what one can, goes shopping again actual, will let you have the home feminine qualities. Otherwise, in the man mind, you is always not a helping the husband godchild manages a household woman in the right way, this is also you cannot marry slowly one of reasons.

　　3rd, the impulsion expends

　　Believed you when passed by hung all over the attractive clothes' display window, also subconsciously traces the bankcard, if each time expended your innermost feelings to have the angel to fly likely, then you should better remember “the impulsion before the expense are the devil”.

　　That vice-sunglasses, after you have bought, throws the drawer henceforth again not to pay attention to it? In the street newly opened novelty shop that import's baby, is much more expensive, ten dollars can buy in Iwu, whether after you do emerge for a while buys, have not opened the box to seal again? Not wrong, you have all over the world all women's similar hobby, is infatuated in spends purchases fundamentally some with the play thing, you will be having its instantance, will feel only “the thing” person's joy. As for the usability, the use value, the performance-to-price ratio and so on terminology, you very little care about.

　　If you are only responsible in expense time impulses a spot, at impulsion's time expends points, then no wonder in others eye, a your always love randomly spends girl!

　　4th, love fantasy

　　You were that kind keep on proclaiming said that you alone did not have the spouse, the human who the side actually did not lack love, melancholy excessively when also seeks for a fast-food-like love in boundless network or in the dim bar. Young girl time's you, are a perfect person, oneself just like are Fairy Returns to Earth, certainly must look for a prince, not if necessarily Arab, at least is also Afghanistan. To love story actor who soon begins, is insisting the big entire vivid standard. Afterward you have run into man armor second grade third Ding, how is together down not to satisfy, therefore starts to think the life in the distant place, love in elsewhere. Afterward, you also through the friend introduced that has met man ABCD, you thought that you read the human to be innumerable, sufficed maturely, therefore sighed with emotion heartfeltly “has completely understood early the man” as well as “not a good thing” and so on.

　　Actually, you have not ravelled oneself are from the start a love fantasize the person. Everybody may understand you at young ignorant time has done these love fond dream, but wheted such for a long time in the reality, you are not still willing the conscientious life, on the one hand the appointment actually is not willing unceasingly the true feelings investment, on the other hand eagerly was hoping the extreme romantic matter occurs on own body. You hold such sentimental manner to live, obviously, is getting more and more mature besides the body, you have achieved nothing.

　　5th, uncombed hair temperament

　　Some person's response always slow half racket, but you are just the opposite, is ready to be set off at a touch. Because the boyfriend appraises too to your clothing's one, you will cast off his arm immediately on the avenue, will let him want to go all out under being in the glare of the public eye to look for the tunnel. In yours mood cloudy clear table, clear extension cloudy short-time Rafale sometimes shower majority.

　　If occasional charmingly angry may also increase several point your lovable, then please believe that several men will not have received your routine acting crazy. Ten big reasons, may like you who at least to the emotionalism bursts into tears explaining why doesn't want the uncombed hair temperament: Some wound liver defeat stomach said that urged the old die sooner die sooner saying that interfered with the work saying that the affinity descension theory, the feminine qualities outflow said that harmed the image to say ......

　　The life is laughter, anger, sorrow and happiness originally, has a fit of temper is one kind of normal phenomenon, but the uncombed hair temperament is the personality not mature performance obviously.

6th, the relaxation is excessive

　　Said your enterprise aspect, you whether to leave things behind frequently? Imagines the day to open frequently? Three days hit the fishing two days to expose to the sun the net? In the service the sacrificethesubstance for the shadow does not divide primary and secondary? If you want to know in advance that your enterprise do have the magnificent prospect, can, when leads can only when leads madame, actually does not need to examine itself to have how many male only then great slightly, so long as inspects inside your handbag is the sundry goods lies or in good order, perhaps engages in introspection in your blog diary, has actually written all over the daydream and the enjoyable poem, methodical work plan.

　　Works has the plan, the plan to be able to carry out, to carry out has the effect, the effect very obvious person, will gain any boss's popularity, if the situation will be opposite, then do not take anything “the plan to be inferior that will change quickly” makes the excuse, you will change are suffice quickly, that will be because you will not have from the start what plan. Because the sex suffices stably, otherwise you become lead madame's possibility to be very young.

　　7th, the heart is narrow

　　Comes newly the female colleague received compared to you leads has welcome, has been young more attractive than you, put on clothes have been more fashionable than you, really let you feel not being feeling well very! Between the colleague the goose bumps minor matter, back and forth two words have no intention teasing, causes your inexplicable envy immediately. You started to take action, although did not have the absolute evil intention, but you could not control must speak opposite party malicious remarks in the behind, ridiculed that she qiu the matter, satirized her clothing ......

　　The woman indeed is the animal which one kind good is jealous, in certain aspects, lacks the open mind, easy to carry too far frequently. But, you need to know, the mature person understands tolerantly, understands seeks common ground while maintaining difference, thinks that your boyfriend are such many year to your tolerance and the understanding! If you also look like his such mind broad, then your office's atmosphere definitely harmonious many, but your personal connection will be also better.

　　8th, willful

　　Starts since the little girl, you did not need to teach to learn to quarrel must eat the ice cream to buy the new clothes, has grown up, you like this. Weekend if the boyfriend has not accompanied you to window-shop the addiction, no matter you also he is wants to work overtime perhaps official business treats with courtesy, a character: Noisy! Dares to violate this girl will? Dares to refuse to accept this young lady to order? Dares not to listen to great-aunt's words? ......Good, you stop.

　　Truculent and unreasonable thinks oneself infallible the woman, does not change positions the ponder to take into consideration other people's woman, even carries matters with a high hand the extreme self-woman, in everybody mind impossible to be able to be a lovable woman. Plays the small temper, to lose the small temper not to relate, stops the line promptly, the man is tired of that kind willfully excessively, that kind under any situation not the woman who considers for opposite party. In the mature meaning, contained has understood respects other people, understood how to respect other people as well as have feels grateful.

　　9th, old ignorant

　　Has many women and you are same, the great age advanced age danger age, the interest hobby also paused, in window-shops plays on, did not understand that the social life is too busy to think of the enterprise to develop.

　　Without human who the sense of hardship muddles along, when meets the life the twists and turns, the bitter experience attack is frequently ruinous, the so-called know-nothing party is no use, is also pitifully pitiful. If 15-16 year old of colored season young girl naive still permissible forgives, that has flowered season young girl double age you, if such is also simple more than ten years ago weakly, innocent, discusses a request the intelligence quotient not to have the distinct enhancement, that is you are not right.

　　It is not you very familiar with proves you to the star Eight Diagrams to be learned, is not the soap opera which you looked many indicated that you are profound to the life understanding, is not you types hits quickly proved your computer level is very high, will not be you will crack a joke proved that you will be in the service negotiations expert ......The knowledge has division similarly the depth, the self-control has the depth similarly or not, this is decided by manner handling matters intravenous drip accumulating over a long period of time, is decided in you to own request and the expectation.

　　If compares with the young people, you many are only for several years goes to work the checking attendance record, that sooner or later one day of you will lose the elder proper status.

　　10th, refuses to mend despite repeated admonition

　　As a grown-up woman, you not only cannot remember the office politics and the emotion contact some game rule, but also violates repeatedly, you will compete in front of the colleague to have a big mouth frequently reveal the real idea, from thought that will open roof louvre window others to speak the frank and straightforward remarks with you, have never realized this will be a very dangerous matter absolutely. You are also such do not grow the memory in the sentiment, before your boyfriend, initially left when you do not return that heartless court attendant, N returns in some rainy day absentmindedly looks for you, but you will always forget him dawn later to say with you bid good-bye, the heart N+1 returned softly.

　　Said experience teaches, makes a mistake is may forgive, violates similar mistake that is unpardonable. The antecedent does not forget, teacher of the things to do after death. Only the summary question's crux is, only then corrected these mistakes, you only then possibly unceasingly progress.