In Europe there is a view that all the talent and achievements that have come from the sublimation of sexual energy. In other words, sexual restraint can stimulate people's creativity, talent and bring up Albert CHAN. Some people say that the Russian Gogol give people reason to stay, such as novels, "Sihun Ling", "A Madman's Diary" and the satirical comedy "Qincha minister" of this enduring literary and artistic masterpiece, because he did not marry for life, has lived in Qiku the single life. And today's Xing Xuejia do not agree with this view, the reason that there are many human inventions, scientific discoveries and literary masterpiece, in fact, it is precisely because of love, because of providing people with the infinite strength of spirit, and Long-term control of both the men and women's health are very harmful.
So, what time of restraint will give people the physical damage caused by what? »
Abstinence to women's physical and psychological harm should not be underestimated
For women, long-term control can cause pelvic blood stasis, more vulnerable to annex Yan, ovarian Yandeng gynecological inflammation. Women in their early sexual abstinence may be enhanced, and in a few months after their sexual abstinence can be completely disappeared, and resumed in the sexual life after Xing Huanqi slow process. Intercourse, vaginal discharge due to a decrease in pain and can cause, it was subject to months of the climax of its response to restore unabated. It is worth mentioning that the long-term abstinence may also lead to women's psychological and behavioral change. Have information that the lack of female sex often get lost in life-they often unrealistic because some of the ideas are distressed. Abstinence of women not only in sleep disorders, headaches and stomach cramps Dengzheng, but also a variety of neurological disorders, some women in the two months after the asexual life can appear nervous. Abstinence women often secretly tears, and sometimes also because the chores of colleagues and neighbors Kan Buguan and Dadongganhuo. Even more interesting is that they are sometimes paranoid thinking, if they live in Western countries also coincides with the presidential election, is likely to vote for those who are most radical political parties and leaders.
Some research data on long-term abstinence for the long-term health effects, such as no long-term sexual life of women rough skin, looked Wu Hua, more aging. Single men to shorten their average life expectancy of 12 years of age, while women could be reduced by five years of age. These women not only more prone to pelvic inflammatory disease, and other gynecological diseases, but also the incidence of breast cancer than women with the laws of life more than twice as high. Therefore, we must not underestimate a woman of restraint to the physical and psychological damage!
Moderation is the impotence of men inseparable friends
The development of mature men and women, sexual restraint is anti-natural. Physiology from the point of view, people of all organs should continue to carry out the necessary functional activities, or else in the body of all the nerve, endocrine and biochemical process will be lost, the entire people of a particular organ or body who Disease. All the organs in the human body functions and activities, including of course the problem of sexual organs and sexual activities. In this sense, sexual restraint is harmful to the natural physical health.
A study showed that long-term restraint so that men experience the pain more strongly than women. Of restraint in the circumstances, men's sexual impulses will always occur, or even more frequent, and when the body of tension and a normal sex life can not be released, if things continue this way can cause sexual organs especially the chronic heart and prostate blood Stasis, leading to the occurrence of prostatitis, such as abstinence have been suffering from prostatitis symptoms can be aggravated. At the same time, long-term abstinence so that male sexuality can be dropped, or even suffering from impotence, premature ejaculation Dengzheng. Therefore, there is a very popular abroad as saying: "man of moderation is the impotence inseparable friends."
In addition, if the abstinence-year-old men around the age of 25 have strong sexual physique, in two weeks after abstinence and abstinence due to the change in sexual function can quickly return, such as 30 to 35-year-old man interrupted and long life Up to several months, the risk of premature ejaculation, impotence and with the possibility will increase if the 40-year-old man while long-term abstinence is likely to cause impotence and other sexual dysfunction and often need to seek medical help, while men over the age of 50 Long-term abstinence, their sexual function by the damage more difficult to resume business as usual.
Xing Xuejia advice and recommendations
The instinct of mankind, but also a very important and the human body's natural physiological function, not sexual indulgence that only harmful to human beings, in fact, control of the health hazards of the same can not be taken lightly.
In the marital status of people who have normal sexual life of the law, it is reasonable healthy way of life important, because a normal sex life is not only essential to the feelings of two lovers linked, is it difficult to replace the normal physiological.
As for when asked how long the one-time needs of life, that is, the frequency of sexual life, because people's individual differences, has never been the so-called "normal standards." However, Xing Xuejia or ordinary people are given a target for reference:
If men 20 to 30 years old, a weekly sexual intercourse l seven times more appropriate;
If men 30-50 years old, a weekly l sexual intercourse three times more appropriate;
If men over the age of 60 a month sexual intercourse l ~ 2 times more appropriate.
For those who for various reasons can not lead a normal pattern of life, should try to reduce unnecessary stimulation, because of restraint coupled with sexual stimulation on the health hazards of even greater. Do not think that reading pornographic novels, video or look at the yellow wait-and-see stand on the street walked going beauties, "Wangmeizhike" and reduce the pressure of fact, only adding fuel to the fire, is actually "Yinzhenzhike." At this time should be arranged and colorful cultural recreational activities, in order to minimize the lust stimulating.
In the temporary absence of sexual partners and forced to take control of the circumstances, can be alleviated through various means masturbation of tension. Masturbation of the same sex is a normal way. Is sometimes the best alternative to sexual intercourse, not embarrassed, not a psychological ERA. Oscillator can be used when necessary, such as tools, sex dolls, this is actually a form of masturbation, is being accepted by more people.